Comments:

Ingrid - 2007-10-04 11:30:17
I know you may not want to hear it - but it won't change. Ever. This is it until you get good and sick of it. Hombre doesn't need to change, so he won't. He makes his attempts every few weeks and they last a few days or a few weeks even, but he is an alcoholic. Alcoholism is a disease and until HE wants to change his own life and quit, he isn't going to quit. Have you ever gone to Alanon meetings?
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x-centricity - 2007-10-04 12:56:09
You want to know when the line is crossed to stop fighting for something that's failing and to make yourself happy...you crossed that line Miles and Miles ago. You're still running in a race that's already ended, Hita. *hugs*
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Brian - 2007-10-04 13:29:00
Sign me up for what Ingrid said. SHe hit it roght on the button. zZYou can't make Hombre change. All your wishing won't make him change. The ONLY thing you can change or control is yourself. Think about this too - before you take care of others, take care of yourself. That aerobics class is a great first step. If you can, check out Al Anon. It's only hard the first time you go. After that, you'll know you belong.
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